Best definition
what the gay
Used in espression of exasperation in similar fashion to “what the hell,” “what the fuck,” or “what the shit.”

What the gay was that thing doing to my dog?
what the gay: define #2
What The Gay
A phrase you would use that would be used to indifie something that is stupid.
“dude What the gay, why did you do that”.. “what the gay, you stole my beer”
what the gay: define #3
what the gay
a safe way to say what the fuck
peopel having sex on a blanket in a public park and you say

“what the gay”

as in what the hell are they doing?!
what the gay: define #4
what the gay
Something that you find wierd,gay,unfair,or stupid. Is kind of like: What the fuck and What the Hell. Can hear SaintDog say it alot if you play Video Games with him on Ventrilo.
SaintDog: What the gay was that shit?

Ice: Your face, just play the game n00b.

SaintDog: Actors are fake. Very Good Game.